Hello aveccii, I saw one of your post where you threw the question, does age really matter in a relationship? And I’m delighted to share my story with you.

My name is Esther and yes if you’re wondering where I saw your post I did on Facebook. I saw your blog link and I went through it.  I’ve been married for 6 years now with two kids, I’m 40 years old and my husband is 36 years. In a typical Nigerian home this is odd and it is barred wrong. But I’ve been happily married to my husband and the journey has been smooth. He’s a sound engineer and I’m a nurse. 

Before we got married only he and I knew how old we were, afraid to let anybody in our homes know our ages for certain reasons mainly rejection. When my husband’s mother found out three years ago. She vowed to get her son to leave me. But my husband didn’t. Why am I sharing this? When it comes to relationships, I don’t think anyone is supposed to tell you who to be with, why  and when. That decision must be solely  yours to make. You can’t let the society tell you who to be with cos whatever you face in the marriage, they won’t face it with you. Marriage is a lifetime thing for better for worse. For anyone who will be seeing this I’m a perfect example of age doesn’t matter when it comes to relationship.

Yours……. Esther