Hello besties….one of our viewers asked a question that I need to put out here for your views and opinions. Below is how she explained it.

Dear aveccii, I’m writing this for you to please help me put it out there. I really need answers. So I’ll be 28 soon. I’ve been in and out of several bad relationships and then I decided to be by myself for a while. There’s this boy( please permit me to call him a boy) apparently he’s 25. He used to be my neighbor back then before my parents relocated to another area but still here in lagos .And he’s been unto me for like a year now. I keep telling him I’m older than he is but he’s not letting go.  It started like a joke but now it’s serious.He told me he has dated an older girl before  but it didn’t make any difference. I’ve never dated someone I’m older than but this boy has been sweet. He gives me comfort whenever we talk. I do sit and see random airtime from him. Random text messages. Random alert. Yes he has my account number Cos one time His bank was giving him issues and he needed to make a transfer to someone. so he asked me to help him.he’d refund the money later, so I made the transfer and I sent him my account number and he refunded the money later so since then he saved it. If I post myself on my status with my hair unbraided he’d assume I’m supposed to make my hair and send me money for it. I’ve told him to stop Cos I sometimes feel really embarrassed. But he wouldn’t. Now he’s told my sister his intentions towards me. My sister has asked me to keep the age aside but I really need a public opinion. 

Thanks 

Yours……anonymous